Do you ever wonder why people compromise with what they have rather than trying to achieve what they really want?
Imagine yourself in this kind of situation or sail through your past experiences when you compromised & convinced your heart without paying any attention
1. Comfort Zone
Dreams and goals just hit the travelling mind only once in a blue moon. Rest of the time, people enjoy the world of comfort zone. Human beings postpone some things temporarily before leaving them completely. Generally, many will encounter this problem with their plan of higher studies, they temporarily occupy themselves with short term goals or jobs in the name of security. Later, short term circumstances appear to be permanent solutions for them. People are accustomed to that life style by giving least priority to their dreams. Later, higher studies dream will forever remain as a nightmare. Same is the case for all the phases of life and for every dream we aim for. Until and unless people drag themselves out of their comfort zone, stepping back will become a new normal.
2. Fear of Failure
Many of us have inferiority complex. We think 100 times before taking one abnormal decision. I don’t know how can one expect unrealistic dreams to happen without diverting their life in an abnormal way or by taking a bold step. If you are ready to face the failure, you will definitely reach your goal post sooner or later. Ready to accept and learn from the failures. Obstacles will turn into opportunities. Fear will become a puppet in your hand even if you still have it inside…
There is a saying which hit me hard, Fear kills more dreams than failure ever will.
3. Improper planning
I think you know this pretty well, a goal without a plan is just a wish. Random things and unorganized processes will ultimately result into loop of confusion. Un-channelized efforts will never bring fruitful results. Pen down the things you wanna make it really happen. Have a blue print and divide the things to add them in your daily calendar log. Set your targets. March ahead without turning back. If your schedule doesn’t match with your efforts, don’t just give up. Take a break, hang on a second, bounce back to make changes and move on.
4. Excuses
We will never find excuses for the things which make us happy. Everyone is ready to achieve but no one is giving a damn about the process. Weakest psyche of human beings is that they will never agree their mistakes. They use excuses in return to satisfy their ego. Some lost hopes in life due to personal trauma. Some show up financial reasons. Some push it on to their partners. No matter what, everyone is under the same umbrella of giving excuses. I could have done that if I have this… type of sentences will shoot you everyday until you keep full-stop for the list of excuses.
5. Negligence and recklessness
Negligence and recklessness instilled in every nerve of human being. Technology made us more lethargic. Haha, let’s not talk about that here. Laziness will support us at each step to successfully neglect the plans which are about to be implemented. Sounds funny right? But it seems true. It will drag us back every time when we want to move ahead. Get out of that bubble and burst out with perseverance. Determination and discipline will frame you into a better version.
